Heal the Pain Before It’s Too Late

heal the pain - e-book

Do you ever feel…

Powerless and unworthy, dominated by toxic people who abuse you mentally, emotionally and even financially – even after ending a toxic relationship?

Or maybe:

  • Drained by people who criticise or manipulate you?
  • Tormented emotionally and mentally by your family and friends?
  • Lonely and rejected for being yourself around people?
  • Inadequate, unwanted and broken because of age, illness, marital or financial status?
  • Guilty every time you say “no”?
  • Lost and in chaos, not knowing how to handle the destructive train of thought?
  • Devastated by your own inner critic, repeating the voices of toxic people?

What Will You Gain?

  • You will learn how to keep poised, even if others reject or torment you. Your self-worth is as a unique being in the Universe, able to cope with challenges on the Earth.
  • Discover what to do to be treated with respect and love, even when other people’s reactions and words no longer trigger you.
  • Build a new, powerful inner self, immune to what others say about you, not afraid of being authentic.
  • Create nurturing relationships with supportive people because of your new self, habits and emotions.
  • Learn how to protect your energy and say “no” without guilt or shame.
  • Take pride in the transformation you will undergo. Your life will never be the same after reading this eBook.
  • Become more conscious of being… and utilise your strengths to regain peace of mind and build inner power.
  • Align body, mind, and energy through transformation and training to develop helpful habits.

If I Had Known Earlier how to Heal the Pain…

I met many women who were struggling with helplessness, abuse and lack of purpose. They have not made any effort to change so far. Here’s what they are facing today:

  • Unbearable self-doubt & guilt — you’ll keep second-guessing yourself and trying to prove your worth to family and friends, and it doesn’t work.
  • Humiliating toxic family control — boundaries stay weak while others manipulate and drain you. This makes you feel helpless, angry, guilty, depressed, stressed out and eventually ill.
  • Declining mental & physical health — stress, anxiety, and exhaustion slowly damage your body and steal your energy. Think of overeating, diabetes, sleep problems and more.
  • Financial & life stagnation or even strain — fear blocks promotions, growth, and you stay stuck in “safe but small – in your personal and business relationships.
  • Disempowering loneliness & lost joy — relationships stay shallow, leaving you isolated and disconnected from the life you crave.

The Worst Pitfalls During Healing the Pain

That journey may be full of surprises and pitfalls. I have included only three pitfalls to avoid overwhelming you. You can avoid them by completing the 40 lessons in the eBook “Rebuild Your Mind, Reclaim Your Life”.

Unfortunately, that lasting change isn’t a quick fix with affirmations. Although they can be helpful, a structured approach is necessary. New habits are also needed. All this is discussed in the eBook.

Discomfort is part of growth. A caterpillar breaking the cocoon or a chicken hatching. Middle-aged readers often misread discomfort as danger, which keeps them stuck. The good news is that you can manage how you handle the discomfort of change.

 Too old? Too settled? Put too much effort into creating the life you have now? Many believe transformation is a young woman’s game. However, neuroscience proves brains can change at any age. And if you rewire your brain, new opportunities will arise, new people will come up.

Bumpy Road to Heal the Pain…

Born in a family where alcohol and domestic violence were present. I never agreed with this situation and always knew that life could take a different course.

Moreover, I suffered and still suffer from a long-term illness, which makes life more challenging. For many years, I could not accept the fact that I would never be allowed to drive.

Today, I know that everything in our lives has a purpose, but it was a long journey of trial and error that led me to discover this truth.

Since I was a teenager, I never stopped digging deeper. Initially, I was reading books about healing relationships and being a happy person, written by Catholic authors. I was able to devour several books at once.

However, it didn’t work, and for many years, I was still playing the victim, blaming everyone and everything for having an illness and living with toxic people.

One day, a friend of mine gave me two self-help books on how to raise self-esteem and take charge of my life. That was a turning point.

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Since then, I have become a voracious reader in self-development and psychology. I attended many courses and tested the ideas presented by their authors for the next 20+ years.

Eventually, I published my book Awaken Mega Happiness. This was another thesis in my life, one that also tested my inner strength.  I did not fully pass the test because it lacked a crucial aspect: the integration of energies and spirituality.  I was also unaware of the laws of the Universe.

Again, I delved into broadening my spiritual horizons, this time beyond any religion, following the path of growth. Now I am ready to share my wisdom with you. Are you ready to transform your life?

Meet the content

heal the pain - e-book

Stage 1 – How Your Mind Generates Pain

  • You will master seven mental laws to stay calm and confident around toxic family and friends.
  • You will learn and practise the tools to attract high-vibed people.
  • You will raise your vibrations.
  • Your thoughts will become much more uplifting.
  • You will create a burning motivation to make changes in your relationships

Stage 2 – Shift Painful Beliefs Into Power

  • You will meet the 12 most common beliefs leading to stress in your close relationships.
  • You will find out your most toxic belief that causes unhappiness in your relationships.
  • You will discover who has sold you this belief, and if this person is the authority to follow.
  • You will learn what you are losing in your relationships by sticking to this belief, and what you will lose in the future.
  • You will meet where your relationships keep you stuck in this belief.
  • You will calm the nasty voice of old beliefs so that no one controls your mind, emotions, or deeds.
  • You will find out why your old beliefs are not true, and test the alternative ways of creating happy relationships.
  • You will master your new belief, feeling more confident and poised around family and friends.

Stage 3 – Heal Your Life Compass

  • You will learn what is most important in your life and how it impacts your relationships.
  • You will notice how your current life compass helps you create a serene life, and how it can make you act out of stress.
  • You will create a new life compass to become an assertive, self-confident person.

Stage 4 – Heal Your Self

  • You will discover how you define yourself now and how it translates into your relationships.
  • You will create a new avatar that can transform your relationships, even with difficult people.
  • You will develop one of the 10 helpful habits of a self-confident, poised woman.
  • You will establish daily rituals of power that will help you see yourself as a worthy, powerful self, despite others’ reactions.

Stage 5 – Make Your Body Your Friend

  • You will make friends with your body.
  • You will evaluate your body language and use it to empower your self-confidence.
  • You will use your body as a tool to calm down your mind and keep poised around toxic people.
  • You will use your body to pacify your inner critic around people, especially your family and friends.
  • You will learn how to use your body to alleviate mental stress after meeting abusice people.
  • You will start taking care of your body to reduce stress and raise self-esteem.

Stage 6 – Build the Habits that Heal the Pain

  • You will empower and integrate all the precious stages to feel worthy, poised and assertive around people.
  • You will learn how to build effective habits to improve your personal relationships.
  • You will establish small, achievable habits to diminish physical and mental stress around toxic people.
  • You will be inspired by other women who have already regained inner peace and power.
  • You will replace stressful routines with ones that empower and calm you.
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  • Over 170 pages of practical tips, ready to use instantly
  • Many examples and stories illustrate the process of rebuilding your mind
  • 40 practical lessons
  • Printable exercises for journaling
  • 6 Challenges boosting your inner strength
  • Access to my FB community.
  • More bonuses coming soon.

Why Is This eBook Unique?

  • Tailored for middle-aged women, this guide addresses the realities of midlife. I am writing about menopause, life transformation, self-esteem, life purpose shift, and family issues.
  • Practical action steps – Each chapter (primary step) and lesson serves as a reference for rebuilding your mind. Just 15 minutes a day can help you discover why and how your mind hinders your self-confidence in toxic relationships – through journaling and weekly challenges.
  • Progress Checklist after each chapter—this will show you how well you are doing.
  • Holistic approach – Real growth occurs when you integrate your mindset, energy, and movement. That’s why you’ll also find bodywork and self-care routines.
  • Change that sticks – Busy schedule? No problem. Studies confirm that small, consistent daily actions are the secret to building long-lasting habits and a new, more resilient self-identity. 15-minute lessons will help you rebuild your mind.
  • Proven and tested techniques – I have spent over 20 years testing these tools myself and with friends. I have chosen the tools that work best for beginners or those with hectic schedules.
  • This is a journey, not just a toolbox– Your mind transformation is a process that will last much longer than reading this e-book. The time and effort you put into the change will have a lasting impact.
  • Profound transformation, on many levels – I will touch five of the six logical levels, giving you a solid foundation for growing further.

Science-Backed for Real Results to Heal the Pain

  • Cognitive reframing and habit change: Backed by decades of evidence in psychology and neuroscience, these techniques reduce anxiety and boost self-worth—especially effective for women facing midlife transitions(The Lancet).
  • Growth mindset: Research shows that adopting a growth mindset builds resilience, helps you bounce back from setbacks, and empowers you to thrive—no matter your age. (PubMed Central)
  • Self-compassion and belonging: Supported by major studies, self-compassion and authentic connections are key to mental well-being during midlife(PubMed Central).

Who Is This Ebook For?

  • You expect a magic pill without effort.
  • You do not accept the holistic approach to rebuild your life.
  • You prefer your current life because change is too uncomfortable.
  • You have a severe mental health condition, and you take medication that affects the process.
  • You are willing to transform toxic relationships.
  • You accept a holistic approach to rebuilding your mental health and emotional well-being.
  • You are eager to make an effort to heal the pain.
  • You’re ready to grow stronger day by day.
DAYS
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  • Over 170 pages of practical tips, ready to use instantly
  • Many examples and stories illustrate the process of healing mentally and emotionally.
  • 40 practical lessons to heal the pain.
  • Printable exercises for journaling
  • 6 Challenges boosting your inner strength
  • Access to my FB community.
  • More Bonuses coming soon
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Meet the Author

“I wrote this eBook because I know what it’s like to feel trapped around toxic family and friends.

I’ve walked the path from self-doubt to inner power, testing various techniques available in the self-help and spiritual growth worlds.

In these seven steps, I share practical tools that have been proven effective for middle-aged women.

My mission is to help you, a middle-aged woman, break through fear, connect with your true self, and create lasting happiness – personally and in relationships.”

Are you still hesitating?

Let me say it clearly: You can heal the pain and enjoy a peaceful mind and emotional balance. I know for a fact how you can feel now because I was also struggling with the same doubts:

Why bother to change?

That is fine; you don’t need to read further and can continue living your life as before. But beware: not taking the chance to heal the pain is also a decision.

Additionally, you will miss out on career and relationship opportunities. Are you still sure that staying in your comfort zone will save you from the pain of loss and disappointment?

Imagine how great you will feel as you tackle your current challenges. You will be proud of every small victory over your mind’s sabotage.

I cannot heal the pain without having a family.

You do not need to cut off all the bounds radically today. One ‘no’ said firmly will not make you totally lonely and unsupported. It will only reveal the brutal truth about your kin and friends.

Some relationships may end. But in the meantime, rebuilding your mind will immunise and prepare you for that scenario. You will be much stronger even if it happens.

With your new self, you will manifest new relationships that are more nurturing and bring you greater happiness.

I have tried many times, and I haven’t healed the pain.

Probably, you were not ready to heal the pain then. Upon coming across this webpage, I am sure that you are still seeking a new approach and hope to boost your inner strength. I believe in you, and I write it again: you can regain peace of mind despite toxic relationships.

Why should it work in my case?

It is no coincidence that you are on this web page. You could have been elsewhere. But you are not. I am confident that you will benefit from the process described in the e-book. When you utilise even one single tool, e.g. thoughts change, and your life will not be the same as before.

Training yourself to adopt only one new habit that promotes self-confidence can transform your relationships. Changing only one belief or body reaction can empower you. And that is only the minimum that my friends and colleagues reported happening in their lives.

Why should I act now? I have no time to heal the pain.

The brutal truth is that if you are forced by life or are motivated enough, finding time will not be a problem.

If you have taken the time to read this offer and reached this point, I can assure you that you will find 15 minutes a day to learn one lesson from the e-book.

It’s too difficult to heal the pain.

Rebuild Your Mind, Reclaim Your Life is divided into manageable steps that will gradually help you master your mind and body. Each lesson is designed to be a baby milestone, while chapters are the main elements of your transformation.

It’s a process – it takes some time, so you don’t have to sprint and take too much in one go.

Why is it so expensive?

Yes, you can find cheaper e-books online. However, most of them will not provide such a profound transformation and will not serve as a single source of information.

Your health, peace of mind and overall happiness are priceless. Every second of your life is priceless. Your energy and vital forces are priceless. And you are losing all that and much more by being around toxic people.

This e-book has been created through extensive research and painful mistakes. They were often very pricey. By making some financial effort now, you can save in the future and even create more abundance. Are you ready now?

If You Don’t Eliminate Stress… Nothing Changes.

Let’s be honest—without healing your mindset, the toxic cycle continues. Here’s what staying stuck might still look like:

  • You’ll stay trapped in a cycle of chronic stress, emotional pain, and quiet suffering—never feeling safe just to be yourself.
  • Your mental and physical health will continue to decline, slowly eroded by stress, shame, and unspoken resentment.
  • You’ll feel heartbreakingly alone—even in relationships—because real connection can’t exist without respect.
  • People-pleasing will continue to drain your time, energy, and money—while others take advantage of your silence.

Frequently Asked Questions

What format is the eBook in?

You’ll receive instant access to a downloadable PDF version of the e-book, which you can read on any device (phone, tablet, laptop, or e-reader). It’s yours to keep forever.

Are there exercises included?

Yes, each step includes practical tasks and reflections.

How long is the e-book? Will it take forever to read?

The e-book is designed to be concise yet powerful — [e.g., about 50 pages] filled with practical steps, exercises, and no fluff. You can go through it at your own pace, even in small daily doses.

Is this suitable even if I’m not spiritual / very spiritual / not into coaching?

Yes. The tools are flexible and practical — whether you approach life from a logical, emotional, or spiritual angle. There’s no one-size-fits-all pressure here.

How will I receive the e-book after purchase?

As soon as your payment is complete, you’ll get an email with a secure download link. No waiting, no shipping — instant access.

Is this e-book relevant for someone like me?

This e-book is designed especially for [insert your target audience, e.g., “single middle-aged women navigating self-doubt, fear, or toxic beliefs”]. If you want to rebuild your confidence, shift your mindset, and take back control of your life, this is for you

How do I know this will actually help me?

The methods inside are based on proven personal development and psychological tools used by coaches and therapists. Plus, real-life examples and exercises make the content practical, not just theoretical.

How do I know this will actually help me?

The methods inside are based on proven personal development and psychological tools used by coaches and therapists. Plus, real-life examples and exercises make the content practical, not just theoretical.

Can I print the e-book?

As soon as your payment is complete, you’ll get an email with a secure download link. No waiting, no shipping — instant access.

Liberate Yourself from Stress Today

DAYS
HOURS
MINUTES
SECONDS

Now

  • Over 170 pages of practical tips, ready to use instantly
  • Many examples and stories illustrate the process of rebuilding your mind
  • 40 practical lessons
  • Printable exercises for journaling
  • 6 Challenges boosting your inner strength
  • Access to my FB community.

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Don’t let stress eat your relationships another day.

Take back your power with “Rebuild Your Mind, Reclaim Your Life.”

A Gentle Reminder

All the guidance and resources shared here are created to inspire growth, reflection, and empowerment. They are not a substitute for medical, psychological, legal, or financial advice. Each person’s path is unique, and results will naturally vary. Please seek professional support when it comes to your health, finances, or personal circumstances. By engaging with this content, you honour your own responsibility for your choices and wellbeing

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